A Complete Guide to Cocktail Attire for Men

So you've been invited to an event whose invitation states "cocktail attire." There comes a time in every man's life when this moment arrives, whether it's a wedding, a work function, a fancy dinner, or some other formal event. Lest you stick out from the crowd like a sore, non-cocktail-attired thumb, you need to know how to dress. We've got you covered.

Cocktail attire is, essentially, a suit and tie. It's elegant and elevated, but not stuffy. It's not as fancy as black tie, but it's fancier than business casual. Traditionally, you'll want to wear a suit in navy or gray (black can lean a little severe) and pair it with a white or light-colored shirt, a darker tie, and dress shoes. Oxfords are never a bad choice, but you can dress it down (just a little) with loafers or derbies or brogues, too. Accessories—a pocket square, a belt—are also on the table. And considering the fact that the rules of fashion are shifting, you could even mix things up with a sport coat and odd trousers or chinos, so long as the look retains the necessary level of dressiness. Whatever look you have in mind—whatever cocktail attire the occasion calls for—the best traditional and nontraditional picks are right here.

Suits for Cocktail Attire

If you want to make things easy on yourself, snag a suit. Two-piece, three-piece, single-breasted, double-breasted... whatever you prefer (though it's worth noting that a single-breasted, two-piece suit tends to feel less intimidating to a lot of guys). You can buy it as a package deal, of course, but suit separates are also totally fine—especially if the range of available sizes allows you to tune in the fit right off the rack. Even if you pretty much nail that fit, though, you'll likely need a few alterations to look your best, so build in some time for that process. Not sure what suit to go for? Take a stab at one of the options below.

Flynn Classic Fit Solid Wool Suit
Peter Millar Flynn Classic Fit Solid Wool Suit
Virgin Wool Suit
BOSS Virgin Wool Suit

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Modern-Fit Bi-Stretch Suit
Nautica Modern-Fit Bi-Stretch Suit

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Wool Twill Suit
Polo Ralph Lauren Wool Twill Suit
Slim-Fit Wool Suit
Canali Slim-Fit Wool Suit
Slim-Fit Wool Suit
Paul Smith Slim-Fit Wool Suit

Sport Coats for Cocktail Attire

If you only need to buy a jacket by itself, you have plenty of options to fit the cocktail attire theme. Traditionally, again, you're looking at navy and gray for colors. Maybe black if you're feeling a little edgy. And for the bold and brave, there's always the option of something tonal, perhaps patterned.

Lyocell & Cotton Sport Coat
Nordstrom Lyocell & Cotton Sport Coat
Cascades Virgin Wool & Linen Sport Coat
Rodd & Gunn Cascades Virgin Wool & Linen Sport Coat
Jetsetter Washed Cotton Blazer
Bonobos Jetsetter Washed Cotton Blazer
Shelton Slim-Fit Suit Jacket
Tom Ford Shelton Slim-Fit Suit Jacket

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Knit Madison Sport Coat
Todd Snyder Knit Madison Sport Coat
Tailored-Fit Linen-Blend Suit Jacket
Banana Republic Factory Tailored-Fit Linen-Blend Suit Jacket

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Pants for Cocktail Attire

As for pants, you're going to need dress trousers or chinos. (The latter should be employed strategically; you don't want to look too casual.) Something you're comfortable in, something that pairs harmoniously with your jacket and shoes.

Josh Slim Fit Wool Tuxedo Suit Pants
Ted Baker London Josh Slim Fit Wool Tuxedo Suit Pants
Mayer Pant
Theory Mayer Pant
Bowery Dress Pant
J.Crew Bowery Dress Pant

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Modern Classic Heather Suit Trouser
Banana Republic Modern Classic Heather Suit Trouser

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Stretch Weekday Warrior Dress Pants
Bonobos Stretch Weekday Warrior Dress Pants
Italian Linen Wythe Trousers
Todd Snyder Italian Linen Wythe Trousers

Shirts for Cocktail Attire

There's never, ever a wrong time to wear a white dress shirt. Some options are crisp and slim, some are more relaxed—they all work, really. Or play around a little bit. A black shirt with a gray, burgundy, or olive suit can be absolutely stunning. A pastel paired with black always adds some class. Just make sure you have a tie to go with.

Slim-Fit Cotton-Poplin Shirt
Tom Ford Slim-Fit Cotton-Poplin Shirt
Pinstriped Cotton-Poplin Shirt
Bottega Veneta Pinstriped Cotton-Poplin Shirt
Slim-Fit Ludlow Shirt
J.Crew Slim-Fit Ludlow Shirt
On SaleDress Shirt
Calvin Klein Dress Shirt

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Cotton Hugh Shirt
Theory Cotton Hugh Shirt

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Grosgrain-Trimmed Cotton Oxford Shirt
Thom Browne Grosgrain-Trimmed Cotton Oxford Shirt

Shoes for Cocktail Attire

Don't be that guy who has his complete cocktail attire look figured out... minus the shoes. These are an important part of your outfit! You don't need to go as far as wearing tuxedo shoes, but something classy and elegant, like a loafer or oxford, is the perfect choice.

Moccasin with Gancini Ornament
Ferragamo Moccasin with Gancini Ornament
Siena Brogue Oxford
Allen Edmonds Siena Brogue Oxford
Dax Plain Toe Derby
Nordstrom Dax Plain Toe Derby

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Valencia Wholecuts
Beckett Simonon Valencia Wholecuts
Scott Polished-Leather Penny Loafers
Mr P. Scott Polished-Leather Penny Loafers
Kaveh Logo-Embossed Horsebit Leather Loafers
Gucci Kaveh Logo-Embossed Horsebit Leather Loafers

Ties for Cocktail Attire

If you're a tie guy, you're in luck. To bring things from casual to dressy enough for cocktail attire, a tie is a must-have. A solid color is always the safe, classy move. A print will take things up a notch and look more visually interesting. And if you have the style prowess to wear something more offbeat? Well, you'll be the best-dressed guy at the function.

Gancini Silk Tie
Ferragamo Gancini Silk Tie
Italian Solid Tie
Todd Snyder Italian Solid Tie
Formal Skinny Silk Tie
Saks Fifth Avenue Formal Skinny Silk Tie
RWB Selvedge Super 120s Twill Necktie
Thom Browne RWB Selvedge Super 120s Twill Necktie
American Wool Tie
J.Crew American Wool Tie
Mini Dots Wine Tie
The Tie Bar Mini Dots Wine Tie

Accessories for Cocktail Attire

To make your look complete, don't forget the accessories! A suit, tie, and shoes are great, but a spiffy belt (in the same shade of leather as your shoes, of course) and a pocket square are what will truly take things to the next level and tie your whole look together.

Skinny Belt
Miansai Skinny Belt
Double Stitched Leather Reversible Belt
Perry Ellis Double Stitched Leather Reversible Belt

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Basic Dress Belt
Banana Republic Basic Dress Belt

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Silk-Twill Pocket Square
Tom Ford Silk-Twill Pocket Square
Panel Silk Pocket Square
Nordstrom Panel Silk Pocket Square
Italian Pocket Square
Todd Snyder Italian Pocket Square

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